Comments on: snap

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 13:48:59 +0000

Your post just described my entire week – right down to the new underwear. I’ve been with him just over a year, just moved in with him in the last month, and am now fighting off the thought that I’m too available. I’ve been ridiculously girlie and sensitive about the matter – I’m hoping those are just my hormones talking, but I’ve been caught with the wobbly lip a few times as of late as well.

By: Sister Louise

Sister Louise — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 10:52:03 +0000

OOOOOoooooh I think Selavy is calling bluff and IS Petite’s boyfriend. All very normal feelings when falling in love with someone…it’s a game of risk…

By: Essex Boy

Essex Boy — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 10:38:57 +0000

Neuroses, “just a high class word for whining”.

Albert Ellis. Psychoanalysis.

By: Vonric

Vonric — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 23:46:40 +0000

Can I come to cheer you up, Petite? I’m pat time in Paris, part time in London every week so I would love to do that ;-)

Being a bloke, I can give my version (unfortunatly the end is not good to be told). When my GF did the same efforts as you did, I did notice. I actually noticed every things from special attention to make-up and new underwear. I was just not feeling it, and blamed me for that… arghhh not good the say that… I should cheer you up instead!!!! OK, go to Paris Plage tomorrow and enjoy the weather, take a break and relax (and email me back if you need someone to play petanque with you).

By: piu piu

piu piu — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 17:38:58 +0000

hey cath its claire

havent read any blogs in ages. just looking thru, and so so empathise with this entry. july has been the month where everyone has broken up with someone, and all the new exciting freshness of every relationship older than 2 months turns into insecurity and paranoia. its insane. i’ve just broken with my guy for pretty much the same reason- fear of the claustrophobia, of when it turns comfortable (which in my mind reads stale…)…. when actually, i think ‘comfort’ was the thing he most desired….

By: Claire-a-belle

Claire-a-belle — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 15:24:09 +0000

Did he really play on the computer for only half hour or was it more like an hour (that’s naughty)?! Are you allowed to say what happened after, did you mellow and feel back to normal again?

By: Martin121

Martin121 — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 11:58:20 +0000

Great blog!

I think people tend to get impressed by people who are not trying to please them.

By: Karma

Karma — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:58:29 +0000

Ahhhh my current husband and I met when he was in his 20s and me in my 30s…..Bliss! We’re happily married now and have known each other for 10 years. I don’t regret marrying my toy boy one little bit.
Bonne chance! :)

By: Roberta Collins

Roberta Collins — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:26:54 +0000

A good bloke is one who still loves you and stays with you after the snap!

So don’t hold back.

By: B.

B. — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 23:12:46 +0000

I can really relate to the “please don’t let me fuck this up” bit. I’m a guy, yet find myself in the same spot a lot. Mainly I try to make everything perfect, but by doing so I think I’m scaring the people I want to please.

j’adore ton blog!