Comments on: the superficial http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/ Mon, 10 Oct 2011 07:58:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: eric http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8839 Tue, 25 Apr 2006 04:44:03 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8839 Yep, I believe there’s some wisdom to that oft- repeated aphorism, “you’re more likely to meet someone you really like, when you’re already seeing someone…” .

(hence my aloneness)

]]> By: petite http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8838 Mon, 24 Apr 2006 12:52:33 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8838 Oh hurrah, does that mean you are back?

]]> By: rhino75 http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8837 Mon, 24 Apr 2006 12:00:01 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8837 Brave-schmave – at least he’s hot!! Thanks to you, I’m shagging someone I don’t even fancy (most recently because he bought me dinner – yes girls, I know how that feels!) But after my trip to our glorious homeland, I am not answering his calls – thanks to my heightened sense of self-worth and the fact I’ve done my back in. That which does not kill us etc. ;)

]]> By: anna http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8836 Mon, 24 Apr 2006 07:55:06 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8836 You really have guts Petite. Hats off to u. U kmow what is working for u and what is not. U r a brave girl. Always follow your intensations.
Best of luck for future!!!

]]> By: Nick Carter http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8835 Mon, 24 Apr 2006 04:41:51 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8835 Well..i almost regularly read your writings and the bset thing is the way you express urself..Coming 2 ur experience..wat to say sometimes we do certain things that are not planned so just go on with it as long as you don’t habitulise urself with such things.
Enjoy!!!

]]> By: Laura http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8834 Sun, 23 Apr 2006 15:51:44 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8834 No advice just totally get it. Have fun in Yorkshire
X

]]> By: Belle http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8833 Sat, 22 Apr 2006 21:45:12 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8833 So…he seduces with words,(as did another,not long ago), draws a shield around himself,is in control
(I GUESS I’ll see you – IN A MONTH), has you seeking his approval (I choose my outfit, my undergarments, with care) nd leaves you regretful…

Fuckbuddies you are NOT.

He’s getting made love to, while all you’re getting is FUCKED…OVER.

Fuck buddies don’t do that.

If a man “seems” remote and inaccessible – he IS.

If you think/feel that you are going to be
Special,Different, More Woman Than The Others, The One,that he is going to open his heart & soul to you,
if this is what you are seeking, whether you admit it to yourself or not, Petite, then you are lying to yourself and doing great violence to YOUR heart and spirit…

Were your pang of remorse really brief,Petite, it would not have birthed a post. His words stung, coming as they did from a bee who flits from flower to flower, as is its nature.

Will you feel jealous when you see him with someone else? (It is just a matter of WHEN, not IF… One cannot fault a bee for being true to its nature.) If so, move on…Instincts do not lie.

It is a law of physics that two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time. Remove the bee from your life so that it may open up to true love. Flit from flower to flower like the beautiful flower that you are, but do not sell yourself…at ANY price.

]]> By: Ingrid http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8832 Sat, 22 Apr 2006 15:16:58 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8832 It’s one of those “know thyself” things. Some people – and I’m one – just aren’t built for guilt-free casual flings, and it’s even harder when you are feeling a bit vulnerable.

It’s starts off sounding good, you’re a modern women, why not?, the guy looks fabulous, he’s romantic, attentive, makes you feel sexy – and then the next morning you feel shabby and used. And worse, you feel needy. For myself, I’ve decided no sex, however great, is worth that.

Petite, you decide what works for you, but ultimately, hold out for adoration and respect. Please.

]]> By: Jules http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8831 Sat, 22 Apr 2006 13:43:33 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8831 All this moralising and/or supportive comments are all very well … I say – “Yes but did you have FUN at the time??? Did you enjoy him, did he enjoy you?” (he better bloody have, if he has any brains & brawn, hee) Even the most gorgeous and adorable of we females get the post-coital morning afters, even when we know the rules of the game and are all growdy-uppy (love that term). Fecking hormones and endorphins… You do your thing. Love your work.

]]> By: t3 http://petiteanglaise.com/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8830 Sat, 22 Apr 2006 12:52:30 +0000 http://www.petiteanglaise.com/archives/2006/04/21/the-superficial/#comment-8830 love reading your blog due partly to voyeuristic and francophilic pleasure, you write so incisively captivatingly, and thanks for blogging your thoughts and experiences

i do hope that things will get better for you soon.. there’s seldom a “right” decision, and no choice can be deemed “wrong” if it’s what you want and desire

nous sommes tous de coeurs libres

bonne chance et bon courage p’tite

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