Comments on: bisou

By: Joan

Joan — Thu, 26 May 2005 08:38:24 +0000

The little ones are surprisingly perceptive, and often respond to situations they sense, even if it’s something they haven’t actually heard about.

My youngest (he’s 4) has taken to giving me random hugs and kisses throughout the day, lately. Sometimes he just comes and curls up on my lap, and puts his head on my shoulder like he used to, when he was truly a baby. He knows I’m agitated even though I do my best to function normally. I’m heading into another treatment cycle for my (highly treatable, but still a pain in the neck) cancer, and the scheduling is taking forever. All the affection he showers on me comforts the both of us.

It is remarkable how attuned to us they are, isn’t it?

By: satsuma

satsuma — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:13:55 +0000

Don’t worry about her remembering things. At her age she’ll be picking up something’s not right but that will be replaced by a new normality.

By: Elle

Elle — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:13:01 +0000

Like others, I find myself saddened and worried for you. Will you and Tadpole have enough money to live separately from Monsieur Frog (or Mr. Toad, as I now think of him)? For better or worse, once you have a child with someone you are connected forever. I hope les grands-parents behave lovingly toward the mother of their petite-fille.

Madame Tut | 8:26 pm

My eyes are welling.. makes it difficult to type.. It is very sad to hear of the break up of your family. I’ve been reading you for so long I feel part of your world. I hope you find what you’re searching for best wishes and luck to you, Mr Frog and Miss Tadpole.

By: LukePDQ

LukePDQ — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:11:17 +0000

Amazing that your daughter has such empathy at her age.
I’m sure you are right that she is picking up on the family vibe. How sad, yet children are also resilient too. I suspect your feelings are very mixed right now.
All the best.

By: sammy

sammy — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:10:44 +0000

Ah, that Tadpole…what a sweetie.

By: Andy

Andy — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:10:22 +0000

Petite, Now that brought out a tear. I could feel the emotion there. Your Tadpole knows what’s going on. Yes, she will be able to get over it, but she will remember it.
I like others, wish yourself, Mr Frog and Tadpole all the very best for this hard times.
Take care Petite. Courage!

By: Greg

Greg — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:09:53 +0000

I’ve got a lump in my throat. I feel the need for lots of quality time with my family tonight.

By: Bad Hippie

Bad Hippie — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:09:29 +0000

The only thing I can add is this…Tadpole is so little that if you separate now, she will very quickly become adjusted to the new situation. My son was 1 1/2 when I left his father, and now – at 11 – weekend visits and split schedules are generally greeted with great equanimity. After the initial adjustment, Tadpole will be able to handle things, too. Kids are amazingly resilient. And empathetic.

Best to all three of you.

By: Ellie

Ellie — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:09:04 +0000

have to admit to tear filled eyes too

By: Lochs

Lochs — Thu, 26 May 2005 07:08:40 +0000

It was the strength and love from our kids that has kept us both going through the very same situation. They never cease to amaze me. You both have a very special girl.